Monday, April 16, 2012

The Worst Blogger Ever...

Ryan's daily clothing routine:
1)Underwear
2)Wool Long Underwear and Undershirt
3)Jeans
4)Fleece Sweatshirt
5)Wool Socks
6)Ski bib
7)Waterproof, insulated jacket
8)Waterproof mittens
9)Waterproof, insulated boots
10)Wool cap
11)On *very* windy days, face mask
12)On *very* ice days, ice pick attachments for boots
13)Oct-February reflective vest
14) change of shoes to wear inside school

*This is for walking to school, which he does about 1/2 mile everyday, usually with a neighbor. Thusfar, the weather hasn't been over 38 degrees. This would NEVER have happened in the states. A bonus fact: There IS NO such thing as a 'drop off/pick up' lot, lane, etc. Kids walk to school. Always. My new rule is "you must stay outside for at least as long as it took me to get all of these clothes on you!" *I will never complain about having to simply spritz my kids down with sunscreen before going outside!
One of the driveways - I have shoveled this too many times to count. I actually ran out of places to put the snow and had to wrap it & dump it around the corner down the street. Apparently, I have some sort of mental/physical block against shoveling snow in mid-April, so our last snowstorm, which dumped about 6 more inches this week, is still sitting in the driveway, trod on many times by my all wheel drive vehicle. That's why we got it!
Heath and I at his squadron Christmas party. In February.
I was actually trying to take pictures of the ENORMOUS snowflakes that were just hovering but the phone camera just couldn't pick it up. So instead, here is a photo of "Main St" Bodø...It's not actually called that, but it's a good comparison.
When in Norway....We bought cross country skis, boots, bindings, poles etc for the whole family. Skis and skiing equipment are the one thing that is actually way less expensive than in the states. I will now add, 'who the heck buys cross country skis?!' We tried it once and have now gone back and purchased downhill skies, boots, and bindings for the whole family. WAY more fun. Still and all with 10 sets of everything, we still spent less than in the US. This photo was taken in a store called Coop Obs! (The exclamation mark is part of the title of the store. So Heath and I always like to make sure we say it emphatically) It's like the Super Walmart of Norway. Only without the Walmart prices.



My baby is 4. This was a tough one. He still seems like such a BABY to me. Maybe that was because he was still in diapers on his birthday. He quite literally woke up one day and decided not to wear diapers anymore. And hasn't had an accident since. We're going on 3 weeks now. I have heard so many people say that can happen, but I never thought my child would do it that way.
Will picked out a Batman themed birthday party for AJ because AJ didn't really care and when he realized he had an option, he changed his mind several times a day. Living in a place that forces you to plan months ahead of time if you want to order anything online is not for the fickle party planner. So, we put our stake in Gotham City and he loved it!
Mr Mustache, aka Alfred Pennyworth (Batman's Butler) was master of ceremonies for the superhero training course. (The mustache is a horrible fighter pilot tradition, in which during the month of March -every year- fighter pilots grow mustaches) I LOVE April! Thanks to my Supermom Friend, Cindy's fantastic birthday inspiration, we came up with a cape decorating, obstacle course, and freeze dance party. I am a pessimist and a perfectionist who feels I'm never getting it good enough so I was afraid that this party wouldn't meet my vision. BUT, it actually did. We had girls and boys from 2-9 years old who all participated in everything and really had a great time. (Freeze dance did turn out to be a Watch the Wimberleys spectacular, but I was in charge of the music. So it didn't last too long!)
Me with the birthday boy in his, according to Heath, Count Dracula, as opposed to superhero, cape. I wonder why I never feel like I'm getting it good enough!! ;)
Pure J-O-Y.



I don't know what else to say about this one.....This guy's concert photos are plastered all about town.
One night after we got back home to Norway after a very stressful trip home to CA, for the death and funeral of Heath's father, Heath and I needed a break. We REALLY needed to refocus...but not yet having found a babysitter made that difficult. I decided to set up a card table in the basement and made a nice dinner for the 2 of us to eat. Alone. I fed the boys early and put on a movie on the 3rd floor to give us plenty of noise separation. When Heath got home from work that night to find the effort and gesture he was so touched. It was a wonderful dinner and I can't even remember what we talked about...it just felt great to prioritize our marriage. I highly recommend this for an emergency date night. Anyway....the boys LOVED the idea of having a special date night restaurant in our house so I have decided to take each of them on a one on one dinner date as well. Our lives are so loud and busy; there is constant chatter, banter, and conversation which makes for a fun family dynamic but it's not until I'm alone (not in an up-in-the-middle-of-the-night-with-a-puker kind of alone) with each of my children do I realize that I may not actually 'hear' everything they're always trying to tell me. I can safely say this goes for Heath & I too. My first dinner date was with Will, the middle child...whom I always fear is a little overlooked until he's in trouble. He's very independent and is my #1 mischief and mess maker. I want to make sure that he gets more from me than behavior and clean up lectures. We moved our table from the basement to the upstairs for a better view and had chicken taco trays and milkshakes. Looking at this picture makes me want to go snuggle up with him while he's asleep and not miss a minute of his spunky fearless childhood. It's going so fast.


I will not even begin to say that I don't have time to actively maintain a decent blog... I WASTE so much time on Facebook and post so many photos and quick updates there...I could easily be doing more here! My goal was to keep this blog as a diary. I have failed terribly thusfar. Now, if I can figure out a way to import my FB posts here I will be caught up on the past 3 years of not blogging! In the meantime, I'm going to put up a few pictures to get you up to speed on life in Norway. My earnest intent is to maintain this blog from here forward and make it personal again!

Friday, November 18, 2011

Back on the Blogwagon!

Facebook killed the blog! But I'm hoping to resurrect it now that we're in Norway. So many funny, frustrating, and just 'new' events happen daily here and they're all just lips away from being forgotten. So...in order to record our lives - the good, the bad, and the ugly - and to share it with all of you, I am really going to put forth some effort to keep this up to date!

Sunday, May 29, 2011

For Cindy - likely the only reader of this blog

My birthday last year......though same cake this year! (Cheesecake Factory Tiramisu Cheesecake...the best of both worlds!)
Attempt at fancy photography for Father's Day 2010. Nobody looks at the camera; doesn't matter, can't see them anyway! :)
We did not know he was doing this until McCain's aid asked if we could 'get a regular pose this time'.
4th of July 2010
Will's 4th Birthday party
Meeting with my parents for dinner in San Diego, Labor Day 2010
Visited my dad's teenage home during our trip to New Jersey in September 2010
Visiting the Arnolds in New Jersey
Halloween!
Me with my little Spidey
Our house; sad that we've been through 4 houses since our last visit! :(
My favorite room in the house, the backyard
Air Force Santa.
Ryan's Mad Science Birthday
With Heath's 96 yr old grandfather
Sepia makes everyone look sweet
How most posed photos look
Graduating in Cub Scouts
Having fun with your Godson
Easter, tired of taking pictures
Mother's Day 2011 Washington DC
Date Night with Will, after he 'finished' preschool. Officially a kindergartner, although there is no kindergarten in Norway.

Almost 20 years ago I met a friend, who would quickly become my BFF. I still see the same fun, silly 16 year old I knew all those years ago and have so many fond memories. Distance sucks - Cindy lives in Houston and I ....don't. :) Someday, I hope to be able to get together for morning walks and coffee - some sort of food at least, b/c that's how our friendship started - and talk about our kids and husbands; still being goofy, still being 100% secure in friendship and trust. We've all heard of the 3 different kinds of relationships: a reason, a season, or a lifetime... Cindy is a lifetime friend, so I dedicate this blog post to you, my dearest of friends, a recap of the past year since I've last blogged to catch you up on photographic evidence of the last year. (Or just hack into someone's FB account so you can get my daily updates!) :)

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Monday, May 3, 2010

Are there doggy doors in Heaven?

Our Izzy. The world was a better place when you were here. We will never EVER forget you.
Her favorite pastime
Some more smooches from one of her favorite boys
Izzy's joy at Heath's homecomings was tearjerking
Christmas BONES!
Watched each new baby like a hawk. She would always come find me when they started to cry.
Izzy was a part of every celebration.
With her Zekie, looking after baby Ryan.
A growing pup in Clovis, NM
One of the first pictures we have of her.

I hope so. I pray for it. On February 19, 2001 Heath and I stopped by the pound in Albuquerque, NM on the way home to Clovis from the airport. We saw her, she saw us....we went through the motions of the 'trial play' but it didn't matter; it was love at first sight. We both knew instantly that dog was ours. Queen Isabella Wimberley - Izzy - became a part of our family and our hearts that day. We brought home a tick infested, parvo positive furball and nursed her back to health. We snuck her into our pet free apartment and let her sleep in our bed to keep her from crying at night and blowing our cover before we could move into our new house. Nine years and 2 months later I held that sweet dog in my arms as she took her final breath on this earth. Where did the time go? Why didn't I walk her more, let her ride in the car more often, turn off the TV and just be with her? I look back on our life with her and realize that she was with us through it all. She lived in NM, TX, OK, AZ, CA, and Korea. She welcomed and adored 3 baby boys and somehow managed to gracefully and subtly protect them fiercely, while licking and chasing them. She was my constant companion, especially when Heath was gone, which was (is) often - my security, my friend, the only other female in this house. She hovered at every meal time, enjoying the abundant table droppings, especially from AJ who was more than happy to share with "Ih-Wah". She was timid and scared, nervous and submissive - a product of her first owner most likely. I hate that she ever knew cruelty and was never able to completely lose that fear. In the end she was in pain. Calcium deficiency was her diagnosis. We had just started her on calcium supplements as well as pain killers and arthritis medication. In the 36 hours before her passing I think she was saying good bye. In the last hours she came to my side to rest. Then, at 6:00 am on Sunday morning, May 2, 2010 she began to struggle with her breathing. I sat with her on her bed and told her it was OK, that she was a good girl and that I loved her. Her suffering was brief, and she died a beautiful, tenderhearted dog. Our family is heartbroken, the sense of loss overwhelming. Her presence is everywhere - her absence, crushing. I have no words to describe my sadness. I look for her in the backyard, I expect to see her when I walk down the stairs, I have twice now gone to fill her empty water bowl..... I know that time heals all wounds, but I know that I will forever miss our beloved dog. As I sit here crying like a baby I don't know what else to write to lock in this emotion that I feel right now. Good bye Izzy Lou. I hope that you will be there to greet me when I come through Heaven's door.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

BOO!

Optimus Prime, Pirate, and Superman! xoxo
LOVED Trick or Treating and kept up with the big boys all night.
Striking their best poses, with our friend Luke Skywalker, aka Asher
Bobbing for apples...
...is harder than it looks!
At the squadron Halloween Party
Watching a SCARY Halloween Movie - I believe it was Winnie the Pooh - the epitomy of fright!
Also watching the movie, not quite so scared. :)